Always remember the story a former employer, and friend told. He went to an auction,local auctioneer with excellent reputation. Auctioneer was selling some household item, and he started really working my friend to buy the piece. Friend wasn't really interested, but he knew the auctioneer, and could tell he was really trying to sell HIM the item, so he bought it. A little later, auctioneer takes a break, hands the gavel to an assistant. Walks up beside my friend and said "my wife collects those". Friend then understood...