Well, maybe it's because I and KSBoy were (I think) the first to meet on NAT and become engaged!

Thanks guys and I did not mean to make you worry.  The new job, trying to figure out how to pick up my life and move it to KS and where we are going to live, and keeping up with my mini-farm here have been keeping me busy.  Oh yeah, and getting married...my people are completely scattered all over the nation (the closest relative to me is 2 hours away!).  We're kind of in a quandary since some people are either too old to travel (ever, at this stage) or have a fair number of little kids which also makes travel unlikely.

Don't worry, you all are on my mind though!