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SW Iowa | Good advice above, but I disagree with continuing on with your grain handling improvements and assuming such a large indebtedness. Take the loss and get out of all pending business deals now. You certainly have a good reason to walk away, and need to do it. Be sure to let everyone know why you are wanting out. I think you will find a lot of understanding on the supplier's part. You are not alone, lots of experience out there with divorce. You are about to face a significant change in your business, income, and not to mention your way of life, and remember she is leagally entitled to 1/2 of everything you presently own. You need to get into a survival mode. Will there be a custody battle? Think about how you will make the monthly child support payments, and continue in your farm business in some fashion. Try to keep as good as possible graces and communication with her. Talk to her about separating the bank accounts now, and you get a good lawyer. Above all, don't go out drinking. It dulls the pain, but, also losens lips and things might be said you will reget when you sober up. Keep your head up, keep busy, but GET IN SURVIVAL MODE. She can clean your clock!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
Edited by Itchy 8/14/2010 08:57
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