Movies are scripted to turn out the way the Producer wants.

This real life thing is a whole different thing. Darn few things turn out the way they were planned, wanted  and/or  hoped for......

As they say, plan for the best-expect the worst and reality will wind up somewhere between those two.

Aways "thought" I would be a "Dad". Planned and hoped and didn't happen either. (so much for krappy "movies"..

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